You Never Know When It’s Your Time

You Never Know When Its Your Time

Colin here 🙋‍♂️

The last month has been one hell of a roller-coaster ride. We experienced something that we often hear about in our industry for the very first time. Something that we’ve worked so hard for and thought would have happened a long time ago.

Oct vs Nov sales

Our business blew up! And not how we expected

Let’s back it up for a second…

October was a terrible month for us. The worst its been in 12 months. Tonia and I participated in a vendor event out in Calgary that we thought was going to be a big deal for our business. We participated in the Body, Spirit and Soul Expo where we were lead to believe that tens of thousands of people would be gathering. We thought this would be a massive opportunity for us! We’d be crazy not to go!

We took a week off from our day jobs, drove the 8 hrs from Peachland to Calgary, we spent over $500 just to be at this event…we even had Young Living give us 50 kits because we we’re so damn sure that we would sell every last one of them.

We sold one! 😭

The event was dead. There was maybe 1500 people that walked through the event over the course of 3 days. At one point I witnessed two vendors hugging while one lady weeped and said ‘I cant afford to loose money this weekend’

It was a flop…

So we tucked tail and came home upset at the failure and a little unsure of what to do next. How is it possible that after all this time we are still struggling to make this work? Needless to say the first few days home were hard on both Tonia and I.

Then something happened…

Our direct up line leader and good friend was gunning for a new rank. Similar to our circumstance, she had been stuck at one rank for a little over 2 years and just couldn’t get past it. But through grit and determination she was able to push through and was now so close. We were the last pillar that needed to up its game otherwise she wouldn’t get there. The pressure was on!

It was in this pressure situation that we discovered something about our team. Something that makes me incredibly proud of every single one of them. Once everyone knew that we were the final team needed to make this happen people began to band together. In one week we sold more than we sell in a month. It was wild! Tonia keenly observed that our people have always wanted to help others and this was their opportunity. She said ‘Look, we have a team of humanitarians’

This was the graphic that Tonia had the honor of creating and posting to social media publicly announcing the news 

Not only did we hit the goal, we exceeded it! It was one of the best feelings I’ve had since we began this journey and something I will remember as a milestone. The month that we helped our up line achieve a LIFE CHANGING rank.

What’s better is that we now have a team who believes in themselves and who is working extra hard. There is a buzz in Team ESOS and it’s here to stay!

I recently caught one of Gary Vaynerchuk’s video’s where he discussed the importance of using gratitude and empathy as a strategy for marketing yourself, your brand and just your own personal happiness. It’s advice that resonated with me and something that I would like to be better at. Given the events of late this seems like a good time to practice!

What I am grateful for!

1️⃣ I am grateful for my wife who works her cute little french butt off every single day so we can have a life only imaginable in dreams.
2️⃣ I am grateful for the amazing women that are doing the same for themselves and their families
3️⃣ I am grateful to all the people who I have not yet met who will also want to change their lives in ways only imaginable in dreams
4️⃣ I am grateful for my mental and physical health

What I am empathetic for!

1️⃣ I am empathetic to the people on my team that are still learning and growing in ways that are uncomfortable, challenging, embarrassing and hard.
2️⃣ I am empathetic that not everyone will hustle/grind/bust their butts at a high level
3️⃣ I am empathetic to the fact that I will not grow as fast as some. In fact its imperative that Tonia and I grow more thoughtfully and intentionally so we can help support others be the ones who made it to the top in a short amount of time
4️⃣ I will be empathetic to myself when I fail as a leader/coach/mentor. I am still learning and will not always have the answers.

The last month has been wild (Tonia has been practicing replacing the word crazy with the word wild…thought I’d give it a try)

Stick with it, stay grateful, empathetic, hard working and disciplined. Why?

…because you just never know when It’s your time

With Purpose


17 Comments on “You Never Know When It’s Your Time

  1. This is really inspiring, congrats to you and your team on such a big success! A great reminder to keep at it, and to remember to be grateful and empathetic. Just what I needed to read today – thank you!

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  2. Aw, what a lovely heart-warming post! Brilliant that your team rallied around to support you both so much.

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  3. Well done both of you, you must have been floating on adrenalin during the crazy / wild week! Gratitude is so important in life in general and is often overlooked.

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  4. I’ve been at vendor events that totally flopped too! It’s a real disappointment. I love that you were able to be positive about it!

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    • That vendor event was especially hard on us. We convinced ourselves that this was going to be a huge event for us. Was a little disappointing. It’s easy to be positive when things are good and I feel like those who can remain positive during the bad times are the ones that have a better chance of succeeding


  5. I love the grateful, then the empathetic list. We must live each day like this because we never know. Our time is His time and with that, there are many bumps and disappointments along the way waiting for the grand gift!

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  6. This hits home big time for me. I went self employed in April, and due to sheer lack of experience had no idea that both the cafe and and blogging income would dry up rapidly throughout July and August. It was ‘squeaky bum time’ as we say here in the UK, I was down to my last £3 and I was preparing the dreaded call to my best fiend…. “Can you pay my rent until next week”. I held off and held off, there was food in the cupboard, I wasn’t beat yet, then something wonderful happened, over £4000 worth of payments I’d been chasing for the last two months all came in on the same day – hurrah! Going forward I know I need to make sure I overcompensate in other months to prevent it next year. You have to keep the faith!

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    • Wild story David! I honestly feel like people who have the ability to weather all of those ‘squeaky bum’ 🤔 storms will receive the rewards. It’s almost like a right of passage


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